· before ethan slater began dating ariana grande, he spent more than four years married to his high school sweetheart, dr. · ethan slater s ex- wife lilly jay opened up in an essay for the cut about her divorce from the wicked actor and his current relationship with costar ariana grande. Lilly jay, is speaking out about her divorce from the wicked star. · ethan slater ’s ex- wife , dr. · lilly jay, ex- wife of wicked actor ethan slater , is opening up about their split following a rumored dating scandal with pop star ariana grande. She writes about the saddest days of my life and the challenges of moving abroad with their son. Ethan slater › spouse · lilly jay, a clinical psychologist and ethan slaters ex-wife, shares her heartbreak and co-parenting journey after his romance with ariana grande. · jay was married to slater for five years before the actor officially filed for divorce on after people reported that he “recently” started dating his wicked co-star grande. In a personal essay for the cut, lilly wrote, “no one gets married thinking they’ll get.
