· first lady jill biden said she has been thinking “a lot” about her decades-long relationship with former speaker nancy pelosi (d-calif. ) as she prepares to leave the white house. The first lady spoke about pelosi and the other democrats who had. In a recent interview with the washington post, jill commented on how her relationship with former house speaker nancy pelosi was damaged when pelosi supposedly abandoned biden s campaign. · as she prepares to exit the white house, first lady jill biden reflected on her relationships during an interview with the washington post, and revealed she was disappointed in former house. · a deep rift has reportedly emerged between first lady jill biden and former democratic house speaker nancy pelosi , stemming from pelosi s reported role in orchestrating president joe. · first lady jill biden shared in a recent interview her disappointment in nancy pelosi , her decades-long friend. · nancy pelosi acknowledged that there has been no communication between her and former president joe biden.